Cover Your Lover
Deesha Dyer's Mission of Protection
by Sherella
Gibbs
AIDS has been claiming lives for the past twenty years. Now, with the
advent
of the commercialization of the epidemic, we have the luxury of doing
our
part vicariously. It is much more than a disease now: it can be a
T-shirt, a
march, a ribbon, or even an occupation in which one dedicates his/her
life
to raising funds for research. America's strife with AIDS has been
televised
much like Sally Struthers's campaign regarding world hunger. But because
the media's manner of heightening awareness is often executed through
television commercials, which are often avoided or ignored, it fails to
reach some key, at-risk populations.
Deesha Dyer, 26-year-old AIDS activist, has decided to bring the
campaign
for awareness down to a smaller and perhaps more personal scale. In
October 2003, she founded the "Cover Your Lover" (CYL)
initiative, a grassroots approach reaching out to Philadelphia's Hip Hop
community. For Dyer, AIDS activism is no flavor-of-the-month passion.
She's been an activist since she was fourteen years old. "The
disease fascinates me," she says. CYL is a one-woman operation.
Dyer often distributes CYL packets with condoms and leaflets at
underground Hip Hop shows. "I love Hip Hop and I figured since I'm
going to be at the shows anyway, I might as well give [the condoms] out
there."
A journalist, Dyer has been penning the comings and goings of the
Philadelphia Hip Hop underground scene since 2002; first, as a columnist
for PhillyHipHop.com and more recently moonlighting as a music critic
for the City Paper. Her local celebrity status has only helped
further her cause.
"Everybody knew me before, because I was writing, so it kind of
worked to my advantage. They were comfortable with taking [the condoms]
from me." She also accompanies fellow Hip Hop aficionados to get
HIV tests and talks with her peers and teenagers about transmission of
the virus.
I think a lot of people have misconceptions about sex and HIV in the
Hip Hop
community," Dyer observes. Ironically, sex is often used as a
platform for
its lyrics, imagery and marketing. "For all the sex and all the
things that
are talked about in Hip Hop songs…it's rare that you hear someone
talking
about protected sex."
She also blames some of the misconceptions about HIV transmission on
the
media. Recently, J.L. King-- a once secretly gay, married man, released On
the Down Low: A Journey Into the Lives of "Straight" Black Men
Who Sleep with Men (Broadway Books, 2004). According to the
Centers for Disease Control, such black men are the leading cause for
the rise in infection rates among African-American women who account for
seventy-two percent of new HIV cases. Dyer insists, however, "I
think it's a lot of media hype. It's true that it happens but that's not
the cause of the rise of AIDS in the black
community." She adds, "I mean what if someone cheated on you
with someone from the opposite sex? They still cheated on you and you
can still contract something."
Dyer sees the rise in infection rates in simpler terms. "People
are just
lazy. How are you so lazy that you can't wrap it up? What's the problem?
They're free." On that notion, Dyer spearheaded Cover Your Lover.
At the time she had been writing for B.informed magazine. When
the editors informed her that she could get condoms for free, she leaped
at the opportunity. "They told me about an organization that had
condoms and would probably donate them to me.
So I called right away, ordered baggies from the Internet, made
leaflets and
I was ready to go." B.informed, along with PhillyHipHop.com
and the Girls Action Initiative were among some of her first sponsors.
She's also
received support from co-workers at her full-time job with a real estate
investment company.
In December 2004, CYL celebrated its one-year anniversary at The Five
Spot with a Hip Hop fundraiser. The entertainment showcased an eclectic
fusion of Philly's most celebrated talents. DJ crew, IllVibe Collective
provided the beats in addition to live performances from MCs Reef the
Lost Cauze and Side Effect. Proceeds from the fundraiser will contribute
to year two's
initiatives.
By all indications, CYL's second year holds the promise of reaching
out to
an even broader community. By spring of this year, Dyer plans to
distribute
CYL packets to Philadelphia health centers. She's also working on
branching
out to Connecticut and New York and implementing a $1,000 annual
scholarship to college juniors and seniors whose parent or caretaker is
HIV positive.
Other goals include securing non-profit status, launching a website,
partnering with a radio station and getting area colleges involved in
her mission. Confidently she says, "It's going to grow."
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